Resolution versus Reconciliation
Resolution and reconciliation are different. • Resolution means “finding the answer,” derived from the Latin resolutionem, “the process of reducing things into simpler form” or “to lessen.” • Reconciliation means “100 % restoration to harmony”; “to bring together again.” Some differences may never be resolved, but you can still be reconciled to those with whom you differ. At other times, resolution may be possible, but reconciliation inappropriate—such as in the case of adultery or cult entrapment—God requires only that, as far as it is possible, you seek to be at peace with everyone. “Aim for perfection … be of one mind, live in peace. And the God of love and peace will be with you.” (2 Corinthians 13:11) Question: “Is forgiveness the same as reconciliation?” Answer: No. Forgiveness is not the same as reconciliation. Forgiveness focuses on the offense, whereas reconciliation focuses on the relationship. Forgiveness requires no relationship, while reconciliation requires nurturing a relationship—a time of coming together in which two people, in agreement, are walking together toward the same goal. The Bible says, “Do two walk together unless they have agreed to do so?” (Amos 3:3) (J.H.) |
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